NDE 使命案例汇编
濒死体验中「被明确告知自己使命」的 237 个案例:英文原文引述、中译与后续追踪,可按关键词与清晰度四档即时筛选

濒死体验中「被明确告知自己使命」的案例集 · 原文引述 + 中译 + 后续追踪

237 个具名案例 初版 2026-09-18 · 扩充 2026-09-19 一手来源:NDERF 档案库等
怎么读这份汇编:先看「清晰度」四档——这是本汇编的核心分层。① 档把使命内容逐字说清,罕见,却几乎都留下了「后来真的照着做」的痕迹;② 档给了方向但没给细节;③ 档数量上占绝对多数,只说「你的使命还没完成」,不给内容;④ 档最耐人寻味——答案近在咫尺,被生生截断。第 ⑤ 区是扩充时新识别的一类:被送回的理由不是「使命未完成」,而是「死亡本身是差错」。第 ⑥ 区按「使命内容类型」重排,用来把剩余案例尽量收全。页面右上方的搜索框与标签可即时筛选全部案例(人名、原文、中文、关键词都能搜)。
四档标签按「整页所有案例」计数,因此会略多于第一~四区的条目数——第 ⑤ 区里也有一部分条目带档位标记。
「使命」被告知的四种清晰度从左到右清晰度递减:内容被明确说清、只给方向、只说未完成、答案被截断,各附代表案例与数量。清晰度递减① 内容被说清T1 · 60 例② 给了方向T2 · 67 例③ 只说未完成T3 · 94 例④ 答案被截断T4 · 16 例四档合计237个具名案例(四档按整页计数,与各节条目数略有差异)一句话结论只说「未完成」不给内容是绝对主流;把内容逐字说清的,是罕见档。而恰恰是这一小档,后来留下了「真的照着做」的可查痕迹。
使命讯息由谁揭示按揭示者在全部案例中的出现次数排序的横向条图。使命讯息由谁说出(案例出现次数)未指明来源72光之存有/「临在」32一个声音30神/造物主25耶稣基督20天使与守护天使16已故亲人12灵性向导11出生前记忆与规划9研究者综述8长老会2注:「未指明来源」占 30%。多数一手见证并未交代讯息来自谁——这本身是一个值得注意的现象,而非本汇编的疏漏。
① 内容被明确说清54 例 · 最可信也最罕见的一档
1 Dannion Brinkley 1975 年雷击,临床死亡 28 分钟 光之存有/「临在」 建立机构或事业 助人与服务
Thirteen Beings of Light infused Dannion's consciousness with visions of the world to come, and charged him with the spiritual mission of establishing Healing Centers on the Earth.

十三位光之存有把未来的图景注入他的意识,并交付他一项灵性使命:在地球上建立疗愈中心。

来源:当事人著作 / 媒体访谈 / 官方组织页

2 P.M.H. Atwater 1977 年,三个月内三次濒死 一个声音 研究、发现与真知 分享经历/写书/教学
A voice larger than the universe spoke to her and told her she was chosen to do research on near-death experiences and write a book about each of her deaths.

一个比宇宙更大的声音对她说:她被选中去做濒死体验研究,并为自己每一次死亡各写一本书。

来源:当事人著作 / 媒体访谈 / 官方组织页

3 Rajiv Parti 医生 2010 年圣诞节,败血症手术中 天使与守护天使 助人与服务 内在成长与自我实现
Guardian Angels Raphael and Michael led him out of a field of flowers… 'Now it is your time to heal the diseases of the soul: addiction, depression, chronic pain and cancer.'

守护天使拉斐尔与米迦勒把他引出花海,对他说:「现在轮到你治灵魂的病了——成瘾、抑郁、慢性疼痛与癌症。」

来源:当事人著作 / 媒体访谈 / 官方组织页

4 Anita Moorjani 2006 年,淋巴癌末期昏迷 已故亲人 爱与慈悲 分享经历/写书/教学 助人与服务
I understood that merely by being the love I truly am, I would heal both myself and others… Now that you know the truth of who you are, go back and live your life fearlessly!

我明白,只要做那个「本来就是爱」的自己,我就能同时疗愈自己与他人……既然你已知道自己是谁,回去,无畏地活下去。

来源:当事人著作 / 媒体访谈 / 官方组织页

5 Howard Storm 1985 年,胃穿孔欲手术而无可施术者 耶稣基督 爱与慈悲 助人与服务
He said, 'I would rather you didn't [build a shrine]… Love the person you're with.' … 'If you love the person you're with, that'll change the world.'

他说:「我宁愿你不要(去建神殿)……去爱你眼前的那个人。」又说:「你若爱眼前这个人,你就在改变世界。」

来源:当事人著作 / 媒体访谈 / 官方组织页

6 Lynnclaire Dennis 1986 年前后 光之存有/「临在」 爱与慈悲 研究、发现与真知
Lynnclaire, you will be a catalyst for change, for love. You will bring forth, hold, and honor remembrance. You will bring to conscious awareness the realms, realities, and remnants in order that the spirit may remember the dance.

琳克莱尔,你将成为改变与爱的催化剂。你将带出、持守并尊崇「忆起」。你要把那些界域、实相与残片带入意识,好让灵记得那场舞蹈。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

7 Nancy Rynes 2014 年,被分心驾驶的 SUV 撞伤后手术中 光之存有/「临在」 爱与慈悲 分享经历/写书/教学 内在成长与自我实现
'You've already agreed to go back. You did that before you were born into your life.' … The core purpose that we all share is to learn how to be here in this environment and still live from a place of love and compassion—not just for your immediate family but for everybody else.

「回去,是你自己同意的——在你出生之前就同意了。」……我们共有的核心目的是:学会在这个环境里活着,同时仍然从爱与慈悲出发——不只对你的至亲,而是对所有人。

来源:当事人著作 / 媒体访谈 / 官方组织页

8 Betty J. Eadie 1973 年,子宫切除术后 长老会 爱与慈悲 分享经历/写书/教学
He said that I had died prematurely and must return to Earth… it was important that I return to Earth, that I had a mission to fulfill… Jesus decided to reveal Betty's mission in life with the condition that if she decided to return to Earth, the memory of her mission would be removed.

他们说我死得太早,必须回地球;我有一项使命要完成……耶稣决定把使命告诉她,条件是:一旦她选择回去,这段记忆就会被抹去。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

9 Bill W. —— 光之存有/「临在」 助人与服务 儿童的使命与代际
After my healing, I knew that my mission was to work with children… I knew I was to open up a Dungeons & Dragons den to help children. I could only come back if I made a difference in someone else's life.

被治愈之后,我知道自己的使命是跟孩子打交道……我知道我要开一家「龙与地下城」小店来帮孩子。我只有在能改变别人生命的前提下才被允许回来。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

10 Lariza GWT —— 耶稣基督 家人与养育子女
Jesus told me, 'GO BACK. It is not your time. You have to go back because I gave you a mission. You're already a MOM!'

耶稣对我说:「回去。还不是你的时间。你必须回去,因为我给了你一项使命——你已经是妈妈了!」

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

11 Virginie R. —— 神/造物主 家人与养育子女
It was God talking to me, as he said that I had to go back to my family, that I would give birth to six children, and that I still had a mission to accomplish.

那是神在对我说话:他说我必须回到家人身边,我会生下六个孩子,我还有一项使命要完成。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

12 Rebecca P. —— 神/造物主 爱与慈悲 家人与养育子女
I chose to return only because as was verified to me my work was not completed – part of which was a friend (my lesbian lover) who needed me greatly and was suffering terribly by my sudden passing… God only cares about the purity of our love for one another.

我之所以选择回来,只因为被明确告知我的功课尚未完成——其中一部分,是一位极需要我、并因我猝然离世而痛苦不堪的伴侣……神在意的只是我们彼此相爱的那份纯净。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

13 Muriel N. —— 未指明来源 助人与服务 内在成长与自我实现
I was given a mission with battered women because unfortunately, I was one of those women abused by their husbands.

我被交付了一项服事受暴妇女的使命,因为不幸的是,我自己就曾是那些被丈夫虐待的女性之一。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

14 Nilda P. —— 一个声音 家人与养育子女 分享经历/写书/教学
He asked, 'What is missing?' I answered: 'I still need to prepare my daughters for life, they need me.' Then, He said, 'Go! Carry out your mission, teach what you had learned.'

他问:「缺什么?」我答:「我还没把两个女儿教养成人,她们需要我。」他说:「去吧!去完成你的使命,把你学到的教出去。」

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

15 Judi C. —— 耶稣基督 家人与养育子女
Then he said, 'I need you to raise your two sons.'

然后他说:「我需要你把两个儿子养大。」

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

16 Vicki Umipeg ——(先天全盲者) 耶稣基督 爱与慈悲 分享经历/写书/教学
He communicated to her: 'It's not your time to be here yet and you have to go back… you have to go back and learn and teach more about loving and forgiving.'

他以心念对她说:「还不是你该来的时间,你必须回去……你要回去,更多地学习并教导爱与宽恕。」

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

17 Guy S. —— 耶稣基督 爱与慈悲 内在成长与自我实现
Jesus told Guy S. that his mission in life is to 'find out about all aspects of love.'

耶稣告诉盖伊:他此生的使命,就是「把爱的所有面向都弄明白」。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

18 Beth Hammond —— 一个声音 爱与慈悲 分享经历/写书/教学 助人与服务
Go back and teach humankind that LOVE is what is important. Love one another justly. Help those who cannot help themselves… Go back and tell the four corners of the Earth what is truly important, not which religion.

回去,教人类明白「爱」才是重要的。公义地彼此相爱。帮助那些无法自救的人……回去,把真正重要的事告诉地的四极——不是哪个宗教。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

19 Sherry Gideons —— 光之存有/「临在」 助人与服务 建立机构或事业
I was told that my purpose was a big mission… I was told that I was meant to lead, that I was a healer sent to Earth to pave the way for others to live.

我被告知我的目的是一个「大使命」……我被告诉说我生来是要引领的,我是一位被派到地球的疗愈者,要为别人的活路开路。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

20 MaErija —— 神/造物主 助人与服务
God since that day chose me for a purpose, he gave me a mission to save innocent children from the killing (abortion), for the injustice, for the cruelty.

从那天起,神为了一个目的拣选了我:给我一项使命,把无辜的孩子从杀害中救出来——为了那不公平,为了那残忍。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

21 Denny B. —— 天使与守护天使 家人与养育子女 助人与服务
I said, 'I have a daughter that must know who I am, and also Earth is in a lot of darkness right now. They need as many people with good heartedness within them alive and on Earth right now. For these reasons I would like to return and complete my mission.'

我说:「我有个女儿必须知道我是谁;而且此刻地球很黑暗,需要尽可能多心地良善的人活在世上。因为这些理由,我想回去完成我的使命。」

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

22 Anne Horne 已故亲人 助人与服务 内在成长与自我实现
He had floated just a bit in front of my path blocking me from going further. Then he telepathically said, 'It is not your time.' … Then I saw this whole group of people become one consciousness … I looked at him and he said, 'We need you there.' Then I remembered it was my 'contract' to be there and to do my part.

他飘在我前方,挡住我的去路,心念传话:「还不是你的时间。」……后来我看见那一整群人变成了一个意识。我看着他,他说:「我们需要你在那边。」于是我记起:我本来就有「契约」要在那里,去尽我的那一份。

全库中「使命被展开成一整段具体画面」最完整的一例:不只是被告知做什么,而是被带去看那件事正在进行的样子,并被指认她在其中的位置。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

23 Maureen K. 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
In an instant, I returned to Earth conscious of my connection to God as my 'I AM presence' was activated. My mission became to experience what I had felt in Heaven here on Earth. I chose that for myself more than anything else.

一瞬间我回到地球,意识到自己与神的连结被激活成「我是临在」。我的使命,变成了把我在天上所感受到的,在人间经验出来。这是我为自己所做的最重要的一个选择。

把使命表述为「把天上的体验搬到地上」——与「回去完成未竟之事」是两种完全不同的使命语法。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

24 Madeleine S. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
They (voices) said, 'Madeleine, the purpose of your life is, among other things, to try to have as much fun as possible, forget the sad things that happened and laugh and smile as much as you possibly can. Everything is going to be all right for you. Humor is very important.'

那些声音说:「玛德琳,你此生的目的之一,就是尽可能地去玩得开心,忘掉那些伤心事,尽量地笑、尽量地微笑。你一切都会好的。幽默非常重要。」

全库最反直觉的一例:使命内容不是爱、不是服务、不是教导,而是「尽量开心,幽默很重要」。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

25 Tracy M. 已故亲人 家人与养育子女 爱与慈悲
'It's time. It's time to go' my first grandmother said. … 'You must,' she said 'you have a child. You're not finished loving. You're not finished remembering. You're not finished knowing. GO.' The words were from everything that existed there and beyond that, maybe what perhaps could be called God.

「时候到了。该走了,」我的第一位祖母说。……「你必须走,」她说,「你还有个孩子。你的爱还没完,你的忆起还没完,你的知道还没完。去。」那些话来自那里存在的一切、以及那之外——也许就是人所谓的神。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

26 Frances W. 神/造物主 家人与养育子女
God spoke to me, but I could not see him, I was stopped, if I went any further, I could not go back to Earth. I had a choice to return or stay but I wanted to stay, God wanted me to go back and told me my purpose was not finished on this Earth, I would have children.

神对我说话,但我看不见他。我被拦住了——再往前走就回不了地球。我可以选留下或回去,而我想留下;神要我回去,并告诉我:我在此世的目的还没完成,我会有孩子。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

27 Christine B. 一个声音 分享经历/写书/教学 内在成长与自我实现
Just as I was about to settle into being 'Home' again, there came this calm, steady, male-like voice which said quote: 'You must go back, you have more lessons to teach.'

就在我快要安顿进那个「家」的时候,一个平静、沉稳、像男声的声音说:「你必须回去,你还有更多功课要教。」

使命内容是「教」而非「学」——与被送回继续学习的常见版本正好互补。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

28 Douglas T. 耶稣基督 分享经历/写书/教学
Jesus said, 'You have to go back it's not your time yet.' I again said, 'I don't want to go.' Jesus said, 'Tell them about me.' I said, 'I'll give them hell.' Jesus grimaced as if he didn't care for that comment.

耶稣说:「你必须回去,还不是你的时间。」我又说:「我不想走。」耶稣说:「去把我讲给他们听。」我说:「我会让他们不好过。」耶稣皱了下眉,好像不太喜欢这句话。

少见的带脾气、带对话来回的案例:使命被给成一句「去把我讲给他们听」,而当事人当场讨价还价。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

29 Adrian W. 一个声音 家人与养育子女 助人与服务
I asked [The Voice] something and the answer was, 'Is not your time. Your son is not born yet; there are many things to do. You have to go back.'

我问了(那声音)一件事,得到的回答是:「还不是你的时间。你儿子还没出生;还有许多事要做。你必须回去。」

使命的理由被落到一件具体未发生的事上(儿子尚未出生),属罕见的具体型。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

30 Fred G. 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现 助人与服务
God told me that I could not come into heaven in the condition which I was in because I was strung out on drugs and alcohol. God said again that I must go back … Then God said, 'All of the alcohol and drugs that you do won't kill you. And I am going to bring you out of it.'

神告诉我,以我当时的状态不能进天堂,因为我正沉溺在毒品和酒精里。神又说,我必须回去……然后神说:「你接下来沾的所有酒精和毒品都要不了你的命。我会把你带出来。」

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

31 Kyah 神/造物主 业力与转世 内在成长与自我实现
He (God) told me that I had a choice to abort the mission but that would mean I'd have to relive the whole first part of my life all over again because consciousness is erased in birth. I thought, 'That wasn't fair.' But, that information made my choice more difficult.

他(神)告诉我,我可以选择放弃这项使命,但那意味着我得把人生的前一段整个重活一遍,因为意识在出生时会被抹去。我想:「这不公平。」可这条讯息让我的选择变得更难。

「放弃使命就重来」——把业力/转世机制与使命直接挂钩的最清楚一例。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

32 Don C. 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
The Being told Don C. it wasn't his time to return home – he still had a mission to fulfill on Earth. … Don was warned that choosing suicide would prevent him from returning to that peaceful realm. If he endured and completed his mission, he would one day be welcomed home.

那存有告诉唐:还不是他回家的时候,他在地球上还有使命要完成。……唐被警告:若选择自杀,他将无法回到那个平安的界域;但若能撑住、完成使命,终有一天会被迎回家。

自杀与使命关系的一条明确解释:使命未完成而中断,代价是「回不去」。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

33 Liz Dale 神/造物主 助人与服务 内在成长与自我实现
At that moment I asked God, 'What do you want me to do?' And the answer that came to me was that I had to go back into my physical body in order to complete certain goals that had already been set into motion.

那一刻我问神:「你要我做什么?」我得到的回答是:我必须回到肉体里,去完成某些早已被启动的目标。

罕见地记录了当事人主动发问、并得到回答的对话结构。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

34 Helen D. 光之存有/「临在」 爱与慈悲
They said there is no right or wrong religion. It is what is in your heart that counts. They also said that our purpose on this Earth is to love. After my review, they told me I had to go back my mission in life was not complete.

他们说,没有哪个宗教对、哪个宗教错,要紧的是你心里装的是什么。他们还说,我们在地球上的目的就是去爱。回顾之后,他们告诉我必须回去——我此生的使命尚未完成。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

35 Debbie P. 未指明来源 爱与慈悲
[I received] absolute understanding that our mission while on Earth is to give universal love, completely and unconditionally to all life and all creation.

(我获得了)一种绝对的确知:我们在地球上的使命,是给出普世的爱——完整地、无条件地,给一切生命与一切造物。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

36 Francois D. 未指明来源 爱与慈悲
I take very seriously my new 'mission' to love the world. As it seems to me that that's what we are here for – to learn to love.

我极其认真地对待我这个新的「使命」——去爱这个世界。因为在我看来,我们来这里就是为了这个:学会爱。

自述式的「回来之后追认」,不是当场被交付——这类占实际多数。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

37 Barbara S. 未指明来源 爱与慈悲 内在成长与自我实现
I was told that we (mankind) are here to learn how to love and gain knowledge. I didn't feel when I was told this that it was just my mission but all of us.

我被告知,我们(人类)来此是为了学会如何去爱并获得知识。被告知的那一刻,我并没觉得这只是「我」的使命,而是我们所有人的。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

38 Anna P. 未指明来源 助人与服务
We each have our own goal and mission. But, we are all united by a single goal to make the world better for the Good of the Universe.

我们各有各的目标与使命。但我们被同一个目标连在一起:为了让宇宙的善,把这个世界变得更好。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

39 Patricia C. 未指明来源 助人与服务 内在成长与自我实现
Life is part of a plan, an Order that is Perfection and Harmony. And human beings have received the mission of carrying out this Order.

生命是一个计划的一部分,是一种「秩序」——完满与和谐。而人类领受的使命,就是把这份秩序执行出来。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

40 Yazmine S. 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
I did feel I had a mission, and it was to get to the Great Presence, the most brilliant clear light of the whole experience. But it was every single being's mission in this universe, so we are all together in our ultimate destination.

我确实感到自己有一项使命,就是抵达那伟大的临在——整段经历里最璀璨纯净的光。但这也是这个宇宙里每一个存在的使命,所以在最终的归处,我们是在一起的。

使命=抵达光本身;而正因为众生共通,它同时是「个人的」与「普遍的」。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

41 Kimberly Clark-Sharp 未指明来源 爱与慈悲 内在成长与自我实现
We are here to learn. Our mission in life has to do with love.

我们来此是为了学习。我们此生的使命与爱有关。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

42 Vincent Tolman 未指明来源 爱与慈悲 分享经历/写书/教学
Our mission in life is to learn love and share it.

我们此生的使命,是学会爱,并把它分享出去。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

43 Jan Price 未指明来源 爱与慈悲 内在成长与自我实现
Our missions mainly have to do with love, but the purpose of life is also to experience joy, gain spiritual understanding and self-awareness, play with the joyful abandon of a child, absorb ourselves in the delight of each moment, let go of obligation and duty, and live for the pure joy of being.

我们的使命主要与爱有关,但此生的目的也包括:经验喜悦、获得灵性理解与自我觉察、像孩子一样忘情地玩、沉浸于每一刻的欢愉、放下义务与责任,为了「存在」本身的纯粹喜悦而活。

少数明确把「喜悦」与「放下义务」写进使命内容的案例,与苦行式的使命叙事形成对照。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

44 Robert N. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
We are sent to Earth to learn and overcome and to bring us closer to GOD. The simplest tasks are so very difficult. … It is the danger of free will that hurts our mission of knowledge on Earth.

我们被送到地球来学习、来克服,好让我们更靠近神。最单纯的任务,往往最难。……正是自由意志的危险,损害了我们在世求知的使命。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

45 Stefania B. 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现
The supreme being spoke to me as if I had known very well what my mission was and why we were carrying out all this human experience. … Our mission is to return to the Source voluntarily.

那至高存在对我说话,语气就像我本就十分清楚自己的使命、也清楚我们为什么要经历这一切人间体验。……我们的使命,是自愿地回到源头。

提问「我的使命是什么」时对方的反应是「你本来就知道」——这一模式在库里反复出现。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

46 Darlene Holman 出生前记忆与规划 内在成长与自我实现 分享经历/写书/教学
We had to take a vow not to remember anything. Then it had to pass through a gray misty-looking curtain. The reason is for us to learn more effectively and faster. The most important reason for us coming to Earth is to either learn or teach. Most times both.

我们必须立誓什么都不记得,然后穿过一道灰蒙蒙的帘幕。这么做是为了让我们学得更有效、更快。我们来地球最重要的理由,无非是学、或者教——大多数时候两者皆有。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

47 David Goines 出生前记忆与规划 内在成长与自我实现
We made a promise to God to accept the opportunities, challenges and responsibilities of a physical life … to return to God with the knowledge and experience gained such that likewise, God could be enhanced by the experience.

我们向神许下承诺:接受物质生命的机会、挑战与责任……带着所得的知识与经验回到神那里,好让神也能因这番经历而更丰盛。

把「遗忘」解释成机制而非惩罚:不遗忘就无从真切地体验,也谈不上自由意志的选择。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

48 William Sillyman 出生前记忆与规划 内在成长与自我实现
What I was shown was that each one of us, including Hitler, have all been shown what our 'mission' on this Earth would entail. We saw all that would occur during our life. However, we were also shown various paths that we could take during the course of our life. None of these paths are predestined.

我被告知的是:我们每一个人——包括希特勒在内——都被展示过自己在地球上的「使命」会包含什么。我们看见了一生中将会发生的一切。但同时,我们也被展示了人生中可走的几条不同路径。这些路径没有一条是命定的。

把「出生前已看过剧本」与「路径非命定」并列,是库里对自由意志问题最完整的一次表述。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

49 David Oakford 出生前记忆与规划 内在成长与自我实现 家人与养育子女
The spirit beings asked David how and why he picked these particular parents. … David picked his parents to help them on their path as well as to achieve his own learning. … Reincarnation is the process which allows us to return to Earth to 'clean up our mess.'

那些灵体问大卫:他是如何、又为何挑了这一对父母。……他挑这对父母,既是为了在人生路上帮他们,也是为了达成自己的学习。……转世,就是让我们能回到地球去「收拾残局」的机制。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

50 Chantal T. 出生前记忆与规划 内在成长与自我实现
I knew everything then. I recalled I knew all about the life that expected me even before I was born. I must even say that when she talked about my mission, I knew I had myself decided about my life and I knew the most minute details of it.

那时我什么都知道。我记起,早在我出生之前,我就已经知道等着我的那一生。我甚至必须说:当她谈起我的使命时,我知道那是我自己决定的人生,连最细微的细节我都清楚。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

51 Carlos V. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I experienced a transformation, more exalted/sublime than being in this dimension – I knew how to accomplish my mission, how to be more alert in my relationships, with manners, and how to work harder on de-attachment and dependence.

我经历了一次转变,比待在这个维度里更为崇高——我知道了该怎样完成我的使命:怎样在人际关系里更清醒、更有分寸,怎样更努力地去修「不黏着」与「不依赖」。

使命内容被拆成了具体的修行条目(分寸、不黏着、不依赖),是极少数「可执行清单型」的使命。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

52 Karen Brannon 未指明来源 业力与转世 内在成长与自我实现
I knew that reincarnation is the natural fact of life, and now, I had the knowingness that if I chose to stay, I would have to reincarnate to Earth again later. … Nevertheless, I knew that I had to return and finish whatever mission I had to do here.

我知道转世是生命的自然事实;而现在我更确知:若我选择留下,日后就必须再次转世回地球。……尽管如此,我知道自己必须回去,把在此地该完成的使命完成。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

53 Dr. Frank Oski 天使与守护天使 爱与慈悲 内在成长与自我实现
The angel said that life is an endless cycle of improvements and that humans are not perfect yet. … 'It stretches our own humanity to love a child who is less than perfect,' said the angel. 'And that is an important lesson for us.'

那天使说,生命是一场无止境的改进循环,人类尚未完善。……「去爱一个不够完美的孩子,会撑开我们自己的人性,」天使说,「而那是我们重要的一课。」

把「受苦儿童」的使命解释成给他人上课——这一说法同时引出重要的伦理质疑,见方法区。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

54 Lynn 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现 爱与慈悲
Souls choose to be born with physical disabilities for the purpose of soul growth and to stay compassionate.

灵魂会选择带着身体的残障出生,目的是灵魂的成长,以及保持那份慈悲。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

② 给了方向,未给细节37 例
55 Lisa M. 1974 年夏,海中溺水 光之存有/「临在」 爱与慈悲 助人与服务
I was told that it was not yet my time, that I was being allowed to 'come home' for a visit, but that I must complete my mission and do the work that I had chosen for myself on Earth… my mission was to learn more about love, compassion, and how to express these on Earth, and that my work was to help others as best I could.

我被告知还不是我的时间,只是被允许「回家」探望一下,但我必须完成我的使命、在地球上做我自己选择的工作……我的使命是更多地了解爱、慈悲以及如何在地球上表达它们,而我的工作是尽我所能帮助别人。

来源:NDERF 简体中文档案

56 JoAnn M. 1994 年 9 月,呼吸衰竭 神/造物主 爱与慈悲 分享经历/写书/教学
He told me that mission is the reason why most people are sent back… part of that mission would be to let people know that death is not to be feared… My mission, I later found out, was to come back and love, to help people not fear death.

他告诉我,「使命」正是大多数人被送回来的原因……这项使命的一部分,就是让人们知道死亡并不可怕……我的使命,是我后来才弄清的:回来去爱,帮助人们不再惧怕死亡。

来源:NDERF 简体中文档案

57 Joon O. —— 光之存有/「临在」 助人与服务
'It's not your time to come here yet. Go back there and help a lot of people, and then come back!' … I had to return to this world with a specific mission: Help lots of people!

「还不是你该来的时候。回去,帮很多很多人,然后你再回来!」……我必须带着一项明确的使命回到这个世界:帮助很多人!

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

58 Steven L. —— 光之存有/「临在」 分享经历/写书/教学
'Maybe another time, but not now. You have a mission to do on the Earth and you must do it. No one else can do it but you…' My mission is basically to share my story down here on the Earth, to tell everybody that they are love too.

「也许另一次,但不是现在。你在地球上有一项使命必须去完成,除了你没有人能做。」……我的使命基本上就是在这里分享我的故事,告诉每一个人:他们也是爱。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

59 Ashley M. —— 光之存有/「临在」 分享经历/写书/教学 爱与慈悲
I was told my mission was to speak to the world about my experience and to teach that God is love and our purpose here is to show love and kindness to everyone.

我被告知我的使命是向世界讲述我的经历,并教导:神就是爱,而我们在此的目的就是对每一个人显露爱与善意。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

60 One Soldier —— 已故亲人 助人与服务
Your mission is to help others and to protect them. You will learn more about your mission as you go along, but for now you need to go back… discover your mission in full.

你的使命是帮助并保护他人。你往前走,会逐渐了解更多关于这使命的事;但现在,你得先回去……去把它完整地发现出来。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

61 Guenter Wagner —— 光之存有/「临在」 分享经历/写书/教学 研究、发现与真知
The Being of Light told Guenter Wagner that his mission is to tell others about his NDE and become a special kind of teacher.

光之存有告诉京特·瓦格纳:他的使命是把自己的濒死体验讲给别人听,并成为一位特殊类型的老师。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

62 George G. Ritchie 医生 1943 年,军中肺炎濒死 耶稣基督 分享经历/写书/教学 研究、发现与真知
Jesus told George Ritchie that he had 45 years to accomplish his mission in life.

耶稣告诉乔治·里奇:他有 45 年时间去完成此生的使命。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

63 Tony —— 光之存有/「临在」 分享经历/写书/教学
A Higher Being gave him the exact date of his death. He was told that his mission in life would be to bear witness to his NDE.

一位更高存在给了他确切的死亡日期,并告诉他:他此生的使命就是为自己的濒死体验作见证。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

64 Clark B. —— 神/造物主 分享经历/写书/教学 爱与慈悲
I believe God has missions for people. I also believe we who have had NDEs are messengers from God to let people know not to fear death and to conduct their life as if they were to die the next day.

我相信神给人使命。我也相信我们这些经历过濒死的人,是神派来的信使:让人们知道不必怕死,并按「明天就可能死去」的方式过日子。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

65 Shalom G. —— 天使与守护天使 分享经历/写书/教学 为孩子或他人让路
They then replied, 'NO, you have still not completely your missions and purposes in life yet, you will heal and then share this information with others'… if I did not return, many people would miss their connections, in order to complete their missions and purposes in life.

他们回答:「不行,你在世上的使命与目的还没完成。你会痊愈,然后把这些讯息分享给别人。」……如果我不回来,很多人会错过他们该有的连结,因而无法完成各自的使命。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

66 Dr. Bell C. —— 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
If every man who comes back from death is meant to carry a special mission, then I believe that my most important mission is to share my miracle recovery story… I am merely a selected story teller.

如果每个从死亡回来的人都带着一项特殊使命,那我相信我最要紧的使命就是分享我这场奇迹般的康复——奇迹并不专属于我,它属于这颗星球上每一个人。我只是一个被选中的说书人。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

67 Susie P. —— 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
I have a mission in this life, to write about the experience. I am a published author and this is why I had this experience so I could share it with others.

我此生有一项使命:把这段经历写下来。我是出版作者,我之所以有这段经历,就是为了能把它分享给别人。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

68 Ana Cecilia G. —— 光之存有/「临在」 分享经历/写书/教学
I know that it was an evolved being… it instructed me with much love and much peace, about my mission or special function… I know I have to share that which I have experienced.

我知道那是一个进化程度很高的存在……它以极大的爱与平静交代了我的使命,或者说我的特殊职能……我知道我必须把我所经历的分享出去。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

69 Malena S. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
I was in a state of extreme joy when suddenly I hear a very strong Voice, powerful and omnipotent, that told me that I had to go back. … 'You must return to life. You still have three missions to complete.'

我正处在极度的喜悦里,忽然听见一个极强、全能般的声音,告诉我必须回去。……「你必须回到生命中去。你还有三项使命要完成。」

罕见地给出了数量(三项),却不说内容——「部分信息型」的中间态。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

70 Victor Borras 一个声音 分享经历/写书/教学
I heard this voice from heaven speak to me and say, 'Well done my son.' … But I again heard these words, 'It is not your time – for you have much fruits to bring to me.'

我听见有声音从天上对我说:「做得好,我的孩子。」……但我又听见这些话:「还不是你的时间——因为你还有许多果实要带给我。」

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

71 Timothy P. 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
I went to Heaven through the tunnel and spoke with Angels that told me my work on Earth here is not complete and that I must go back. They told me that life is a mission that we must all complete before we can go to the Heavenly Kingdom.

我穿过隧道到了天堂,与天使交谈。他们告诉我,我在地球上的工作尚未完成,必须回去。他们说,生命就是一项我们都必须先完成的使命,然后才能进入天国。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

72 Diane Goble 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
The only communication I remembered is that it wasn't my time to go, I had more work to do in this life, and if I chose to go back, I would be given access to knowledge that would help me with my mission.

我唯一记得的交流是:还不是我走的时候,我此生还有更多工作要做;而且如果我选择回去,我将能接触到有助于完成使命的知识。

「附带条件」型:回去换取的报酬,正是完成使命所需的知识。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

73 Justin M. 已故亲人 助人与服务
I heard a voice say, 'Stop, don't go, it's not your time,' and 'You still have a job to do.' When I turned to see who was talking it was my mother, she died when I was 6 months old.

我听见一个声音说:「停下,别走,还不是你的时间」,还有「你还有一件工作要做」。我转身想看是谁在说话——是我母亲,她在我六个月大时就去世了。

认出母亲这一点是关键:她不可能来自记忆,属罕见的「超验核实」旁证。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

74 Richard L. 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现
'You're not supposed to be here, yet. You have to go back. You know what you agreed to,' he said. … 'You must go back, you have work to do. We'll send you back, soon.'

「你还不该在这里。你必须回去。你知道自己当初答应了什么。」他说。……「你必须回去,你有工作要做。我们很快就会把你送回去。」

「你知道自己答应了什么」——把未说出口的内容推给当事人的前生记忆,是回避交付内容的一种典型话术。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

75 Carole 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
There was a bright white light and I felt the most incredible love (peace, forgiveness, tranquility) ever. … I was very disappointed when I heard a voice (and I knew it was a higher power) say, 'You are not finished yet. You cannot die. There is so much more yo[u have to do].'

那里有一道明亮的白光,我感受到前所未有的爱(平安、宽恕、宁静)。……当我听见一个声音(我知道那是一个更高力量)说「你还没完成。你不能死。你还有许多事要做」时,我极为失望。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

76 Grace 已故亲人 内在成长与自我实现
And he said, 'No. Here, what goes on in the world has no meaning.' He said, 'We're here to care for you, we're here to take you on.' And then there was a sense of drawing back, and I panicked and said, 'Dad, I d[on't want to go back].'

他说:「不。在这里,世上发生的一切都没有意义。」他说:「我们在这里照看你,我们在这里接引你。」接着有一种被往回拽的感觉,我慌了,说:「爸,我不想回去。」

deceased father 的版本里,「被接引」与「被退回」几乎是同一动作的两面。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

77 Leonard 神/造物主 家人与养育子女
At some point God told me, 'You must go back to Earth.' I refused then; no way I should go back into that sick body. Then God showed me a vision of my mother who cried because I was dead, and then I came back.

某个时刻神对我说:「你必须回到地球去。」我当场拒绝——绝无可能再回到那具病体里。然后神给我看了一个画面:我母亲因为我死了而在哭。于是我就回来了。

「用画面而非言语说服」——使命内容没变,改变的是当事人的意愿。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

78 Ashli 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现
God spoke to Ashli with love, telling her He was proud and that her journey was nearly complete. They urged her to finish her mission, promising eternal love and peace in return.

神带着爱对阿什莉说话,说他为她骄傲,而她的旅程已接近完成。他们敦促她把使命完成,并许诺以永恒的爱与平安作为回报。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

79 Catherine Ann M. 未指明来源 业力与转世
Such as, an agreement that I had not achieved my mission yet … And other individual's lives end, before they complete their divine mission. Why some people have helpers, who save them from death. Whereas others do not receive that assistance. I've been told this is because of good karma, acquired from past lives.

比如有这么一条共识:我的使命尚未达成……也有别的人,在完成神圣使命之前生命就结束了。为什么有些人有帮手把他们从死亡里救回来,而另一些人得不到这种协助?我被告知,那是因为前生积累的善业。

罕见地正面回答了「为什么是他被救回来、而不是别人」这个最难的问题。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

80 Bryan D. 未指明来源 业力与转世 内在成长与自我实现
I started thinking, 'I need to go back, I need to finish my mission on Earth, as Bryan! Wait, what is my mission exactly?' I tried to recall, to no avail. … I was also slightly saddened, as I also remembered that I also had a few 'incomplete missions' throughout time.

我开始想:「我得回去,我得完成我在人间的使命——以布莱恩这个身份!等等,我的使命到底是什么?」我试着回想,却想不起来。……我还有点难过,因为我也记起,在漫长时间里我还有过几项「未完成的使命」。

能把使命按「历次人生」分条计数,是全库唯一一例。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

81 Hal 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现
If we were born with our pre-birth knowledge intact, our resulting choices would be predictable and would be a violation of our free will. Free will is a highly important power given to us by God. Almost all of our choices must be made according to it.

如果我们带着出生前的知识 intact 出生,那么我们做出的选择就会是可预测的,也就侵犯了自由意志。自由意志是神赐给我们的极重要的能力,我们几乎所有的选择都必须依它而行。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

82 Maureen K.(附条) 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
I chose that for myself more than anything else.

那是我为自己所做的、超过一切别的选择。

本条记录「使命由当事人自选」这一表述;主条见第一档同名条目。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

83 Marta M. 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
The only thing is that I always put myself down, thought I never did enough and he talked to me like I was a very good person, that I've done much good and I accomplished my mission.

唯一的问题是,我老是贬低自己,总觉得自己做得不够;而他用看待一个很好的人的方式对我说话,说我做了许多好事,说我的使命已经完成了。

极罕见的「已完成」型:天使是来告诉她使命已了、而不是尚未完成的。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

84 Galadriel K. 出生前记忆与规划 内在成长与自我实现
As spirits we come here (Earth) with a mission or goal in mind and a plan mostly in place.

作为灵,我们来到(地球)时是带着使命或目标的,并且大体上有一套已就位的计划。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

85 Lily 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
What I learned from it was that death is simply a soul being done with a mission in physical world as if a soul 'forks it in' (our lingo for done with day's mission) and leaves physical world.

我从中学到的是:死亡不过是一个灵魂在物质世界里把使命干完了——就像灵魂「打卡下班」(我们那儿对「今天的任务做完了」的说法),然后离开物质世界。

用职场俚语(forks it in=收工打卡)描述死亡与使命,语气在库里独一无二。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

86 Zoe C. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I became certain that death is sure to happen anytime, that there is afterlife, that everyone has a mission on Earth and that we must live our life to the fullest with our loved ones.

我变得确知:死亡随时都会发生,确实有来世,每个人在地球上都有一项使命,而我们必须与所爱的人把这一生过到最满。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

87 Ned Dougherty 光之存有/「临在」 建立机构或事业 助人与服务
A Being of Light whom Dougherty identified as 'the Lady of Light' (Mary, the mother of Jesus) revealed to him his own personal future of creating a 'Mission of Angels' … His deceased friend revealed to Ned he had a mission: 'You have a mission ahead of you in your life, and this experience will guide you on that mission.' … 'You must be positive to perform your mission.'

一位被多爾蒂认作「光之女士」(耶稣的母亲玛利亚)的光之存有,向他揭示了他个人的未来:创建「天使使命」……他一位已故的朋友也告诉他:「你的人生前方有一项使命,而这次经历会在那使命上引导你。」……「你必须保持正向,才能履行你的使命。」

与 Brinkley 并列的「机构型使命」:都被明确交付要建立一个组织。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

88 Chantal L. 出生前记忆与规划 内在成长与自我实现
I also remembered having agreed to accomplish a mission. I came to Earth to accomplish a mission. All of a sudden, I realized that I had not accomplished this mission. My joy and serenity turned into anguish … I came back from a heavenly state to accomplish this mission and I forgot what it is shortly after re-entering my body!

我也记起自己曾答应要完成一项使命。我来到地球就是为了完成一项使命。突然之间,我意识到我并没有完成它。我的喜悦与宁静变成了痛苦……我从那个天上的状态回来就是为了完成这项使命,而刚一回到身体里,我就把它忘了!

把「遗忘」写成了当场发生的、可感知的事件——是遗忘机制最生动的一例自述。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

89 Arthur Ford 灵性向导 助人与服务 分享经历/写书/教学
Arthur Ford encountered a spirit guide named Fletcher … Fletcher communicated to Ford that his earthly work was not yet complete – that he had a mission to fulfill involving the bridging of the material and spiritual worlds.

阿瑟·福特遇到了一位名叫弗莱彻的灵性向导……弗莱彻告诉他:他在世上的工作尚未完成——他有一项使命,要在物质世界与灵性世界之间架起桥梁。

使命被表述成一句可当职业说明书用的话,是「内容→行动」对应最清楚的一例。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

90 Amber Wells(研究者) 研究者综述 内在成长与自我实现
Our own desire to grow and learn leads us to be born in the physical realm. … We progress at our own rate to reach the light. If we do things that take us away from the light, then we are perpetuating our time here.

是我们自己成长与学习的渴望,把我们引向物质界出生。……我们以自己的速度向光前进;若做了让自己远离光的事,就是在延长待在这里的时间。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

91 Satwant Pasricha & Ian Stevenson(研究者) 研究者综述 内在成长与自我实现
The Hindu near-death experiences profiled here are typical of the cases studied in India by researchers Satwant Pasricha and Ian Stevenson.

这里介绍的印度教背景的濒死体验,与萨特万特·帕斯里查和伊恩·史蒂文森两位研究者在印度研究的案例属于同一类型。

跨文化对照的关键锚点:印度案例中「被送回」的叙述较少涉及「使命」,而更多涉及「记录出错/被误拘」。这一点常被用来质疑「使命」叙事是否带有基督教语境的色彩。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

③ 只说「未完成」,不给内容67 例 · 数量最多的一档
92 Jack —— 光之存有/「临在」 分享经历/写书/教学
Then I was told, 'Jack! You must go back. You have not finished your mission on Earth.' I was not told what I was to tell them. I was not told what that mission was to be.

然后我被告诉:「杰克!你必须回去。你在地球上的使命还没完成。」但没有人告诉我该对他们说什么,也没有人告诉我那使命究竟是什么。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

93 Robert I. / Robert L. —— 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
I asked if I could stay and a voice boomed, 'Your mission is not complete. You cannot stay'… I really wonder exactly just WHAT my mission is!

我问能不能留下,一个声音轰然响起:「你的使命没有完成,你不能留下。」……我真的非常想知道,我的使命到底是什么!

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

94 Fena D. —— 已故亲人 内在成长与自我实现
The spirits indicated that I had more things to do and they were counting on me to do them. What, I don't know. I keep asking for direction. If I am supposed to live, then what is the mission that I am supposed to accomplish?

灵体们表示我还有更多事要做,他们指望着我去做。是什么,我不知道。我一直在请求指引。既然我该活着,那我到底该完成的是什么使命?

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

95 Mel W. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I was told that I had a great mission to fulfill and that if I didn't return, nobody else could fulfill it. Whether I was shown what this was or not, I can't recall.

我被告知我有一项重大使命要完成,如果我不回去,没有别人能完成它。至于有没有给我看过那是什么,我记不起来了。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

96 Gracie T. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
Then almost instantly, I felt like I was given a job to complete, or a mission to fulfill, but I couldn't tell you what that was.

几乎在一瞬间,我感觉自己被交付了一项要完成的工作、一项要完成的使命——但我没法告诉你那是什么。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

97 Diana R. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I was told why I was born and my mission or reason for being and then told that my work wasn't done yet and that I had to go back.

我被告知了自己为何出生、我的使命或存在的理由,然后被告知我的工作还没做完、必须回去。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

98 Sue D. —— 已故亲人 内在成长与自我实现
He said I had to go back because my mission wasn't over yet… We, and only we, can do the work to complete our mission.

他说我必须回去,因为我的使命还没结束……完成自己使命这件事,只能由我们自己、且只有我们自己来做。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

99 Renate —— 天使与守护天使 家人与养育子女 内在成长与自我实现
He told me it would be better if I returned because of the children… The spirit world would need me to complete a mission for them while back on Earth… I will return there once my mission is complete.

他说,为了孩子,我回去更好……灵界需要我回到地球去为他们完成一项任务……等我的使命完成,我就会回到那里去。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

100 George E. —— 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
A friendly 'voice' told me that I couldn't stay because 'it was not my time yet' and I had a mission on Earth waiting to be accomplished.

一个友善的「声音」告诉我不能留下,因为「还不是你的时间」,而且我在地球上还有一项使命等着被完成。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

101 Kavis —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I could feel the peace, happiness radiating towards me but felt this overwhelming feeling that I had a mission or something to complete that was greater than my own peace.

我能感到平静与幸福向我辐射而来,但同时涌起一股压倒性的感觉:我有一项使命、或者说有一件事要完成,它比我自己的安宁更重要。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

102 June S. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
The presences gave me a strong feeling of validation and that I will remember that even if I am alone, they will be waiting for me when I complete the mission… I must return… because I am obligated to for some purpose.

那些临在给了我一种强烈的「被认可」感,让我记住:即使我孤身一人,等我完成使命时他们会在那里等我……我必须回去……不是因为我想,而是为了某个目的,我有义务回去。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

103 Chuck B. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I was aware that being on Earth was a mission, not the end-all reason for being… the knowledge that Earth was a classroom and that the mission was just an unpleasant assignment.

我意识到,待在地球本身就是一项使命,而不是存在的终极理由……我得知地球是一间教室,而这项使命不过是一份不太愉快的作业。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

104 Gail K. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
[I experienced] a heightened sense of a 'mission' that I was supposed to accomplish here before I could go 'home' to the bright light again.

(我体验到)一种被强化的「使命感」:我必须在这里完成它,才能再次「回家」回到那明亮的光里。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

105 Jorge R. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
We should be more spiritual and prepare ourselves in life to accomplish our missions and in that way be more completely ready for the trip which awaits us.

我们在世时就该更属灵、准备好去完成各自的使命,好为那场等着我们的旅程做好更充分的准备。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

106 Michael L. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现 建立机构或事业
That event changed my life so drastically. It gave me such a grand mission and a reason to go on living, which eventually became the focus for the rest of my life.

那件事彻底改变了我的人生。它给了我一项宏大的使命、一个继续活下去的理由,并最终成为我余生的焦点。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

107 James F. M. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
My past flashed before me, out of my control. No review of past, although I did see several things to help me complete my task, mission, goal – not sure what to call it.

我的过去不受控制地闪过。算不上完整的回顾,但我确实看到了几样东西,用来帮我完成我的任务、使命、目标——我不知道该叫它什么。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

108 Sheila E. P. —— 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
It became clear telepathically, after that life review, that it was just not my time to go. I must have seen that I did not complete whatever mission or task that I had come to my life to accomplish… it would not be beneficial for my mission/task for me to know or remember everything.

经过那场生命回顾后,我心念上清楚了:还不是我该走的时候。我一定是看到了自己没能完成来到此生该完成的那项使命或任务……而让我全知道、全记得,对我的使命反而不利。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

109 Wanda H. —— 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
I was told that I was needed here on Earth and my mission was not complete. I agreed to return.

我被告知,地球上需要我,而我的使命没有完成。我同意回来。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

110 Steve B. —— 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
Life's mission wasn't fulfilled yet, and I was afforded the opportunity to come back to this world in order to carry out my life's purpose. And, as a part of that purpose I have to clear up any and all misconceptions on this situation being an attempted suicide.

此生的使命还没完成,我才得到机会回到这个世界去履行它。而那使命的一部分,是我必须澄清关于「这次是一场自杀未遂」的所有误解。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

111 Darren Corlett —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
During this NDE I was 'told' I had to come back (from there) because I had a mission.

在那次濒死体验里,我「被告知」我必须(从那边)回来,因为我有一项使命。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

112 Laurence B. —— 未指明来源 助人与服务
I did not know many of the details but had a strong drive to seek and know… I knew the purpose of life and that I had a mission to help others to know this.

我并不清楚细节,但有一股强烈的冲动要去寻找、要去知道……我知道了人生的目的,也知道了我的使命是帮别人也明白这一点。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

113 Glauco S. 8 岁时 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
I knew my angel was showing me this because it wasn't my time. My mission wasn't done. What mission? I still don't know.

我知道天使给我看这些,是因为还不是我的时间。我的使命还没完成。什么使命?我到现在也不知道。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

114 Ramona C. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I believe I have a mission. I just don't know what it is… I don't know how to identify what I am supposed to be learning to prepare me for the next phase of existence.

我相信我有一项使命,只是不知道它是什么……我不知道该怎么辨认出自己该学什么,好为存在的下一阶段做准备。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

115 Estelle D. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I understood that I had a mission. But, I had to discover it.

我明白了我有一项使命。但我必须自己去发现它。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

116 Romy —— 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现
He (a spirit guide) said that I had a mission to accomplish and that I would know in time about it.

他(一位灵性向导)说我有一项使命要完成,到时候我自然就会知道。

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117 John F. —— 耶稣基督 内在成长与自我实现
He explained to me that I had not yet performed his wishes that he had set forth for me in my lifetime. I asked him what some wishes of his were and he did not answer me. He said I would know at the right time, sometime in my future.

他向我解释:我还没有完成他为我此生设定的心愿。我问他那些心愿是什么,他没有回答。他说,到了该知道的时候我自然会知道——在我未来的某个时刻。

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118 Laura M. —— 耶稣基督 内在成长与自我实现
He spoke to me, telling me that it was not my time and that I needed to return to my body, to complete my life's mission… 'This was just something you needed to accomplish your chosen life mission.'

他对我说,还不是我的时间,我必须回到身体里去完成此生的使命……「这只是你为了完成自己所选的人生使命而必须经历的一件事。」

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119 Robert Tremblay —— 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
One of my callings was to share this experience with my family and others and I consider that mission now complete.

我的召命之一,是与家人和其他人分享这段经历——我认为那项使命现在已经完成了。

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120 Mark —— 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
My three angels… did not like my response of, 'I don't want to go back down there; it is painful.' 'You must! Your mission is not yet complete!'

我的三位天使……不喜欢我那句「我不想再回到下面去了,那里太痛」。他们说:「你必须回去!你的使命还没有完成!」

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121 Elizabeth S. —— 耶稣基督 助人与服务
His arms were reaching out to me, and then he spoke. He said, 'You are not ready to die, you still have work to do.'

他张开双臂迎向我,然后开口说:「你还不能死,你还有工作要做。」

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

122 Patty —— 一个声音 助人与服务
Suddenly, the voices said, 'It is not your time. Go back. I've got work for you to do.'

突然,那些声音说:「还不是你的时间。回去。我有工作要交给你。」

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123 William Petersen —— 一个声音 助人与服务
Then I specifically remember a dominant male voice saying, 'It's not your time. Get off the escalator. You've got shit to do.'

然后我清楚记得一个主导性的男声说:「还不是你的时间。从扶梯上下来。你还有一堆事要干。」

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124 Josiane Antonette —— 未指明来源 爱与慈悲 分享经历/写书/教学
There is much, much work for you. You have to go back and tell them… Spread love and understanding. We will always be with you guiding you, protecting you, awaiting the time when we will be reunited when your work on Earth is over.

你有非常非常多的工作。你必须回去告诉他们……去散播爱与理解。我们会一直与你同在,引导你、保护你,等着你地球上的工作结束、我们重逢的那一天。

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125 Rahmaan 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
The Light pointed to me and reminded me of my responsibilities and told me that I have to finish my mission on Earth.

那光指着我,提醒我的责任,并告诉我:我必须完成我在地球上的使命。

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126 Elzada O. 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现
I remember God telling me something that my mission on Earth was not finished. In other words it wasn't my time.

我记得神告诉我:我在地球上的使命还没完成。换句话说,还不是我的时间。

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127 Analisa D. 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现
I am intensely grateful to God for letting me glimpse the afterlife and to know that we are all here on a mission, each and everyone of us. It is as though God's love is coursing through me and I have the ability to give so much love to people.

我极度感激神让我瞥见彼岸,让我知道我们每一个人在这里都带着一份使命。仿佛神的爱穿流过我,而我有能力把那么多的爱给出去。

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128 Sammy 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现
We talked for hours about why we are all here and my plans for this life is. At that time, I knew it all, the whole meaning of life and what it is all about. I cannot remember any of it except the last sentence… 'Then it's decided, you're going back.'

我们谈了好几个小时,谈我们为什么都在这里、以及我这一生的计划。那时我全都知道——生命的全部意义、一切到底是怎么回事。可这些我一点都不记得了,只记得最后一句……「那就定了,你要回去。」

「谈了整整几个小时,回来一个字都不剩」——内容量与遗忘程度反差最大的一例。

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129 Lorenzo Dow Young 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现
He was 'permitted only to visit these heavenly cities, for I had not filled my mission in yonder world; therefore I must return and take my body.'

他只被「允许参观那些『天上的城』,因为我在彼世尚未完成我的使命;因此我必须回去,重新拿起我的身体。」

19 世纪摩门教早期信徒的记录,是全库年代最早的一手见证之一。

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130 Sylvia R. 已故亲人 内在成长与自我实现
She (a deceased neighbor) told me that my mission on Earth was not completed and that I would have to go back. I protested and begged to stay to no avail. She said I would be 'allowed' to stay the next time… We do not die until we achieve what we were instructed to do before we were born.

她(一位已故邻居)告诉我,我在地球上的使命尚未完成,我必须回去。我抗议、哀求留下,都无济于事。她说「下一次」我可以获准留下……我们在完成出生前被交代的事之前,是不会死的。

把「使命未完成」直接等同于「死不了」——因果链条最直白的一例。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

131 Linda M. 已故亲人 分享经历/写书/教学
Although I had all my worldly senses, I had no physical body. My dad had a physical body though. I assume that it so I could recognize him. I was told telepathically that I had to go back and complete my mission.

虽然我保有全部世俗的感知,但我没有身体。而我父亲有身体——我猜是为了让我能认出他。我心念上被告诉:我必须回去,完成我的使命。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

132 Sinnaeve 已故亲人 内在成长与自我实现
My grandfather said, 'You still have a lot to accomplish here on Earth and your earthly mission is not over. The time has not yet come to join me'… We all have several missions that are intended for us and which we have to put into practice during our earthly life.

我祖父说:「你在地球上还有许多要完成的事,你的人间使命还没有结束。来与我团聚的时候还没到。」……我们每个人都领受了好几项使命,必须在人间把它们实践出来。

又一处点出「复数使命」——与 Malena S. 的「三项」互证。

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133 Kathi B. 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
I was told that I was too early. I still had work to do. What work? I would be able to figure that out. I would have to go back. … I understood that it was my duty and that I wouldn't be asked to do it if I wasn't capable.

我被告知我来得太早了。我还有工作要做。什么工作?那得我自己去弄明白。我必须回去。……我明白那是我的职责,而且如果我没有能力,就不会被要求去做。

「内容要你自己弄明白」+「你不会被要求做你做不到的事」——使命叙事里典型的自我担保话术。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

134 Johanna S. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I came to a barrier that I was not permitted to cross; or was sent back against my will I was told that my work was not finished and so I had to return.

我来到一道不许我越过的屏障;或者说,我被违背意愿地送了回来——我被告知我的工作还没做完,所以必须回去。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

135 Lina R. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I truly think that I was stopped from going further because my time on Earth was not complete.

我真心认为,我被拦住不再往前,是因为我在世的时间还没走完。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

136 Mari C. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
The decision to return was based on the knowledge that I was not finished in my life and there were things to accomplish and fulfill.

我决定回去,是基于这样一个认知:我的一生还没有走完,还有一些事要去完成、去圆满。

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137 Jennifer V. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I had to come back because I still had work to do down here, I am not finished yet.

我必须回来,因为我在下面还有工作要做,我还没走完。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

138 Brandon C. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
It was as if I was being held in a waiting room, and I knew that I was loved. I knew somehow that I am not finished with my time here. I knew other things, but cannot describe them. I realized I was a part of a bigger picture.

那就像我被安置在一间候诊室里,而我知道自己被爱着。我隐隐知道,我在这里的时间还没走完。我还知道别的事,但描述不出来。我意识到自己是更大图景的一部分。

「还有别的事我知道、但说不出来」——这类「有内容但无法转述」的表述,在库里比「完全没内容」更常见。

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139 Halil T. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
I heard an authoritative voice say, 'You shall not enter. You have not finished your life. When you have completed your life and continued to be a good person, you will earn your place here.'

我听见一个有权威的声音说:「你不得进入。你的生命尚未完成。等你把这一生走完、并继续保持做个好人,你就会赢得在这里的位置。」

把「完成使命」与「做个好人」并列为入场条件,是道德化版本的一种表述。

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140 Georgina R. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
I did not want to come back to my life. I heard a voice tell me that I was not finished yet. I was devastated that I was forced back into my awful life.

我不想回到我的人生里。我听见一个声音说我还没走完。被强行推回那糟透了的人生,我整个人都垮了。

负面情绪最强的一例:「被送回来」在这里不是恩典,是刑罚。值得与「被委以重任」的叙事对照看。

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141 Raymond Kinman 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
I was told that I must go back… that it was not my time. … I remember an intense feeling of regret and being filled with a 'No, No, please let me stay' feeling. But wherever the 'voice' was coming from was adamant…it was not my time and I must return. I had no choice in the matter.

我被告知必须回去……还不是我的时间。……我记得一种强烈的悔意,整个人被「不、不,请让我留下」的感觉充满。但那声音的来处非常坚持……还不是我的时间,我必须回去。在这件事上我毫无选择。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

142 Peter B. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
Suddenly, from no place at all, there was a voice. It was a warm and soft voice that said, 'You have to go back, it is not your time you have things to finish that are not done!'

突然间,不知从何处传来一个声音——温暖而柔和:「你必须回去,还不是你的时间,你还有没做完的事!」

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

143 Jewel H. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
Without warning, I was suddenly and violently sucked down toward my body. I was still face down on the ocean floor. On the way down, I was told 'It's not your time yet.'

毫无预警地,我被猛地朝身体吸下去。我还脸朝下趴在海底。下坠的途中,我被告知:「还不是你的时间。」

溺水案例,且「被送回」发生在下坠途中而非光前——空间结构与多数案例不同。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

144 Beatrice W. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
'You still have to fulfill your work' was still reverberating for a while and I wondered what was meant by this. It was like a mission given to me. As I didn't get an answer and I still continued a few times to get over the invisible border, but to no avail.

「你还要完成你的工作」这句话回响了好一阵,我一直在想那是什么意思。那像是一项被交给我的使命。我没有得到答案,之后还试过好几次想越过那道看不见的边界,都白费力气。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

145 Norma C. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
My past flashed before me, out of my control. I was meant to go back and try my best at being the best I could be; there was more there for me – I had a mission.

我的过去不受控制地闪过。我注定要被送回去、尽力做最好的自己;那里还有更多东西等着我——我有一项使命。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

146 Louise B. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I have a mission to complete, as any of us has.

我有一项使命要完成——就像我们任何一个人一样。

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147 Cindy 耶稣基督 内在成长与自我实现
Cindy: 'I want to come home now.' Jesus: 'No, you can't.' Cindy: 'But I don't want to stay there anymore. I don't like it.' … Jesus: 'I grieve for you and what they've done to you.'

辛蒂:「我现在就想回家。」耶稣:「不,你不能。」辛蒂:「但我不想再待在那儿了。我不喜欢那里。」……耶稣:「我为你、为他们对你所做的事而悲伤。」

罕见地以对白形式保留下来的案例,情绪张力最强:回去不是选择,是命令。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

148 Alise 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
However, I did not want to come back but I was told that my life had not finished and that I must. I argued and lost. So I reluctantly came back and got into my body and woke up.

然而我不想回来,但我被告知我的一生还没走完、必须回去。我争辩了,输了。于是我勉勉强强地回来,钻进我的身体,醒了过来。

「我争辩了,输了」——三个词的写法高度压缩,是库里语言最干脆的一例。

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149 Angel 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
My past flashed before me, out of my control It was more like in one moment I understood my entire life to that point and knew that I was not 'finished' here.

我的过去不受控制地闪过。更像是在一瞬间,我理解了自己到那一刻为止的整个人生,并知道自己在这里还没有「走完」。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

150 Fred G.(附条) 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现
God said again that I must go back, and I moved further away, still pleading to stay.

神又说了一次我必须回去,而我又退得更远了些,还在哀求让我留下。

本条记录「被拒后仍哀求」的动作细节;主条见第一档同名条目。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

151 David J. 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现
David J. attempted suicide and found himself surrounded by spirit guides. A deep sense of failure and depression overcame him – feelings he believed were tied to his unfinished mission in life and the way he had arrived there.

大卫·J 自杀未遂后,发现自己被灵性向导们环绕。一种深深的失败感与抑郁压倒了他——他认为这些感觉与他未完成的人生使命、以及他来到那里的方式有关。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

152 Flora S. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I was given a second chance for a reason. I feel I am on some kind of a mission that I must fulfill.

我被给了第二次机会,一定有原因。我觉得自己身负某种必须去完成的使命。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

153 Fernando S. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I believe I was given a second chance at life in order for me to accomplish my mission through an existence that I knew it would be neither easy nor simple.

我相信自己被给了第二次生命,为的是让我去完成使命——而通过一种我事先就知道既不轻松也不简单的存在方式。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

154 Sherry Gideons 光之存有/「临在」 助人与服务 建立机构或事业
I was then told that I was being given the choice to stay or to be given a second chance to complete my purpose. I was told that my purpose was a big mission… I was told that I was meant to lead that I was a healer sent to Earth to pave the way for others to live.

然后我被告知,我可以选择留下,或者接受一个「第二次机会」去完成我的目的。我被告知我的目的是一项大使命……我被告诉说我生来是要引领的,我是一位被派到地球的疗愈者,要为别人的活路开路。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

155 William C. 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
I felt like I had been given a second chance. I felt like I had a special experience and it was important that I share it as much as possible.

我觉得自己被给了第二次机会。我觉得自己经历了一件特别的事,而尽可能多地把它分享出去很重要。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

156 Marie-Pierre C. 未指明来源 家人与养育子女 内在成长与自我实现
I know that they made me come back, as my son of 7 years at the time, has to experience an 'important' future, and it is my mission to go with him…. then to 'elevate' myself spiritually for my next lives.

我知道是他们让我回来的——因为我当时七岁的儿子要经历一个「重要的」未来,而我的使命就是陪他走……然后为自己的下几世在灵性上「提升」。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

157 Arthur Yensen 未指明来源 业力与转世 内在成长与自我实现
We choose the life we are going to live and how much karma we are going to meet and settle.

我们选择自己将要过的一生,也选择将要面对并了结多少业力。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

158 Chantal L.(附条) 出生前记忆与规划 内在成长与自我实现
My joy and serenity turned into anguish: I had failed to accomplish this mission.

我的喜悦与宁静变成了痛苦:我没能完成这项使命。

本条记录「发现自己没完成」的情绪转折;主条见第二档同名条目。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

④ 答案被截断或禁止告知8 例
159 Alice U. —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I was brought back abruptly to this life, this realm, and I felt really pissed off about it, like I was just about to receive some profound knowledge or my life's mission and the nurses brought me back.

我被猛地拉回这一生、这一个界域,我当时气坏了——就好像我正要接收到某种深奥的知识、或者我的人生使命,护士就把我拉回来了。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

160 Omar C. —— 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
As soon as the thought of leaving came, the same voice said, 'Your next mission is…' Then, confusion and anguish set in. I wondered, what is the mission in this life? I still don't know!

刚起了「要离开」的念头,同一个声音就说:「你下一个使命是……」然后混乱与痛苦就来了。我想:此生的使命到底是什么?我到现在也不知道!

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

161 Dr. Fabio —— 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
He (Archangel Michael) informed me that my Earth mission had concluded… Archangel Raphael explained that having already completed my earthly mission, in order to return I would be entrusted with a new mission revealed over time.

他(天使长米迦勒)告知我:我的地球使命已经结束……天使长拉斐尔解释说,既然我已完成了地球使命,若要回去,我会被托付一项新的使命——它会随时间慢慢揭示。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

162 Pascal C. 自杀未遂 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
'You have a mission to fulfill… You have to go back and do what you have to do.' 'Tell me what this mission is.' 'You'll understand in due time, no answer would content you… Answers will be given in due time, but it is up to you to capture them.'

「你有一项使命要完成……你必须回去,去做你该做的。」「告诉我那是什麼使命。」「到时候你自然会明白,任何答案都不能让你满意……答案会在合适的时候给你,但要不要抓住,取决于你。」

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

163 Chris V. —— 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
Then out of nowhere a voice said 'you're not ready yet'. I remember realizing I had a body… and I said the exact words, 'I'm not ready yet.'

然后不知从哪儿传来一个声音说:「你还不行。」我记得我意识到自己还有一个身体……而我说了一模一样的话:「我还不行。」

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

164 Ramon —— 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
I came to a barrier that I was not permitted to cross; or was sent back against my will. If you are not ready, the light will not receive you.

我来到一道不许我越过的屏障前,或者说,我被违背意愿地送回来了。如果你还没准备好,光就不会接纳你。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

165 Janna W. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
[I received] scenes from my personal future. It is all in a blur but it did seem to hint at my life's mission.

(我收到了)我自己未来的若干画面。全都模糊不清,但似乎确实在暗示我此生的使命。

「前向人生回顾」型:看的是未来而非过去,但同样只给出模糊的暗示。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

166 MaErija(附条) 神/造物主 助人与服务
he gave me a mission to save innocent children from the killing (abortion), for the injustice, for the cruelty.

他给了我一项使命:把无辜的孩子从杀害中救出来——为了那不公平,为了那残忍。

本条为重复表述的归档;主条见第一档同名条目。涉及当代争议议题,此处仅记录当事人自述。

来源:near-death.com/mission/(含其汇整的 NDERF 一手见证)

⑤ 专项:不是「使命未完成」,而是「死亡本身是差错」5 例

这一组是本次扩充时新识别出来的:被送回来的理由不是「你的使命还没完成」,而是「你来早了,这是一场差错」。差别不只是措辞——前者把返回解释成责任,后者把返回解释成纠错,当事人往往连「被委派」的意味都感受不到,情绪也更接近被遣返。其中 Marie W. 与 Beatriz S. 两例,当事人只是旁听到两个引导者互相交涉,连话都不是对她说的。

167 Kathleen Young 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现
I was totally aware that God was there but I was also aware that it was a mistake I was there and He fixed it very quickly.

我完全清楚神就在那里;但我也清楚,我在那里是一个错误,而他很快就把它修正了。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

168 Marie W. 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
He (an angel) explained in quite a bit of detail how mistakes could happen in a death. He said the journey of death is more complicated and lengthy than humans realize. It is rare, but things sometimes can go wrong.

他(一位天使)相当详细地解释了死亡过程中怎么会出差错。他说,死亡的旅程比人类以为的更复杂、更漫长。虽然罕见,但有时候确实会出问题。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

169 Beatriz S. 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现
I heard the black man (spirit guide) tell the white man (another spirit guide) that there had been a mistake, that it wasn't my time, that he had make a mistake or something like that.

我听见那个黑人(灵性向导)对那个白人(另一位灵性向导)说,出了个差错:还不是我的时间,是他犯了错,或者类似的话。

当事人只是「听见两个引导者互相交涉」的旁听者——库里视角最边缘的一例。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

170 Giselle RV 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
They (beings of light) told me that it was not my time but that due to a medical mistake I arrived home once again.

他们(光之存有)告诉我,还不是我的时间;我是因为一场医疗差错才又回了一次「家」。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

171 Laurelynn Martin 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现
He kept saying, 'All is known. You have simply forgotten.' … I asked Wills if I could stay. He said, 'It's not your time yet. There's been a mistake. You have to go back.'

他一直说:「一切都已经知道了。你只是忘了。」……我问威尔斯我能不能留下,他说:「还不是你的时间。出了个差错。你必须回去。」

同时含两句话:一句解释遗忘机制,一句把返回归因于差错。

来源:near-death.com「Told "You're Not Ready"」专题

⑥ 主题补库:按使命内容重排71 条 · 与上文可能有重合,组内已标注
爱与慈悲7 条
172 Betty Eadie 耶稣基督 爱与慈悲 内在成长与自我实现
Each one of us came to Earth on a personal mission to be loved or to give love. We are to learn the value and price of love. Other parts of our mission include learning patience, humility, self-discipline, and other virtues.

我们每个人都是带着一项私人使命来到地球的:去被爱,或去给出爱。我们要学会爱的价值与代价。使命的其他部分还包括学会耐心、谦卑、自律等德性。

173 Maria S.V. 光之存有/「临在」 爱与慈悲
It began to tell me all the events that will come to my life. It even told me that I never have been in love with a man on Earth and that I should come back now so I can do that. It kept saying, 'you have a mission to accomplish and too many things to do.'

它开始把将来到我生命里的种种事件告诉我。它甚至说:我从未在地球上与一个男人相爱过,所以现在该回去把这件事做了。它一直说:「你有一项使命要完成,有太多事要做。」

174 Francois d'Adesky 神/造物主 助人与服务 爱与慈悲
An older being, who d'Adesky intuited was God, told him: 'Your time has not come. You have not undertaken your Earth mission.'

一位年长的存在——达德斯基直觉认为那是神——对他说:「你的时间还没到。你尚未开始你的地球使命。」

175 Christian Andreason 出生前记忆与规划 爱与慈悲 内在成长与自我实现
Before each of us are sent forth into our various missions, we are brought into a vast Cathedral of Light known as 'the Throne Room of God'… Because our souls are covered by what is known as a 'veil of forgetfulness,' we are made to seek God out in ways that hopefully has us seeking him in each other… But first we must work at accomplishing the thing he sent us here to learn… LOVE!

在我们每一个人被派遣去执行各自的使命之前,都会被带进一座称为「神之宝座室」的浩瀚光之圣殿……因为我们的灵魂覆着一层「遗忘的帷幕」,我们被安排以某种方式去寻找神——但愿这方式是让我们在彼此身上找到他……但首先,我们必须努力完成他派我们来学的那件事……爱!

176 Sandra Rogers 耶稣基督 儿童的使命与代际 爱与慈悲
Some souls choose to be born for a short period of time and die as a baby or child. The purpose for this is to teach others important lessons. To love a child who is born less than perfect is an important lesson.

有些灵魂选择只出生很短一段时间,以婴儿或孩子的身分死去。这么做的目的是教导别人重要的功课:去爱一个生来不完美的孩子,就是一堂重要的课。

177 Dr. William J. Serdahely(研究者) 研究者综述 助人与服务 爱与慈悲
The return to the body is often necessitated by a strong sense of a mission that is yet to be fulfilled. One returns to be of service to others, to be more loving, to be more tolerant and compassionate, and/or to seek knowledge of a spiritual nature.

回到身体,往往是被一种「使命尚未完成」的强烈感觉所迫。人回来是为了服务他人、更懂得爱、更宽容更有慈悲,或去寻求具灵性性质的知识。

178 Nora Spurgin(研究者) 研究者综述 内在成长与自我实现 爱与慈悲
A central aspect of our eternal existence is continued spiritual growth through love and service.

我们永恒存在的一个核心面向,就是通过爱与服务持续地灵性成长。

分享经历/写书/教学8 条
179 Juliet Nightingale 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
We were needed to fulfill and complete something significant in our own lives… as well as to honor a special mission to help humanity finally come to the realization that there is indeed no death.

我们被需要,是为了在自己生命里完成某件重要的事……并履行一项特殊使命:帮人类终于认清——死亡确实不存在。

180 Don Brubaker 神/造物主 分享经历/写书/教学
'Have no fear, my son,' the voice said… 'I have chosen you to write about the experiences you will go through.' … 'You will tell others about me, Don. That is your mission. That is why you are going through these experiences.'

「不要怕,我的孩子,」那声音说……「我拣选了你,去把你将要经历的一切写下来。」……「你要向别人讲述我,唐。那就是你的使命。你之所以要经历这一切,就是为了这个。」

181 Brad Steiger 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
He felt he had been shown a plan of the universe, and that he had a mission which is 'to testify to others that the human spirit is eternal and that we are not alone in the cosmic scheme of things.'

他感到自己被展示了一份宇宙的蓝图,而他有一项使命:「向别人作证——人类的精神是永恒的,在这宇宙的安排里,我们并不孤单。」

182 Nanci Danison 光之存有/「临在」 分享经历/写书/教学
I did not want to be a failure at the mission Source gave me to tell everyone what I had experienced and learned in the afterlife in 1994.

我不想在「本源」交给我的使命上失败——那使命是把我 1994 年在彼岸所经历、所学到的,告诉所有人。

183 Suzanne Boehm 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
It is now my mission to share that God, Source, The One, The Higher, the Transcendent… really exists. He is not a figment of our imagination. He is real.

现在我的使命就是分享:神、本源、太一、更高者、超越者……确实存在。他不是我们想像的产物,他是真实的。

184 V.P. 未指明来源 分享经历/写书/教学
I've found a much deeper understanding of God's love and guidance. Which seems to have become my 'mission' in this life – sharing those realities with others.

我对神的爱与引导有了深得多的理解。这似乎成了我此生的「使命」——把那些真实分享给别人。

185 Melissa H. 神/造物主 分享经历/写书/教学
I had a mission to tell others about what God was doing, did in my life, what he showed me, about Truth, and sin and good and evil.

我有一项使命:告诉别人神正在做、已经在我生命中做了什么,他给我看了什么——关于真理、关于罪、关于善与恶。

186 Dharam S. 神/造物主 分享经历/写书/教学
I felt like God had given me a second chance and it was my mission to spread the word about how wonderful God is and how wonderful life is.

我感到神给了我第二次机会,而我的使命就是去传扬:神有多美好、生命有多美好。

助人与服务16 条
187 Rosa M. 耶稣基督 助人与服务
As for the mission Jesus told me about, over the years I realized that I do have the ability to help people.

至于耶稣告诉我的那项使命,这些年来我明白了:我确实有帮助别人的能力。

188 Tiffany Snow 耶稣基督 助人与服务 研究、发现与真知
She discovered her mission in life is to heal, teach, and help others manifest their God-given gifts with power and love in their own lives.

她发现自己的使命是疗愈、教导,并帮助别人在自己的生命里、以力量与爱,显化出神所赋予的天赋。

189 Marta Y. 天使与守护天使 助人与服务
Like all other beings, you are living in order to accomplish a mission, and you are not doing this. You must change your way of living, you are supposed to help many other beings, and you are not doing so.

像所有其他存在一样,你活着就是为了完成一项使命——而你没有在做。你必须改变你的生活方式:你本该帮助许多别的存在,可你没有。

190 Christina G. 未指明来源 助人与服务 内在成长与自我实现
I was shown that I had suffered as a child to use my experiences to help guide others. That is what my mission on Earth in this life is for… I wake up with gratitude every day for the second chance I was given.

我被展示:我童年受苦,是为了让我用自己的经历去引导别人。这就是我此生在地球上的使命……每一天醒来,我都为得到的第二次机会心怀感激。

191 Brandy L. 未指明来源 助人与服务
It has widened my sphere of knowledge to know things, to be a better person with a mission of helping those less fortunate.

它拓宽了我的认知边界,让我知道更多事、成为一个更好的人,使命是帮助那些处境不如我的人。

192 Cesar G. 神/造物主 助人与服务 业力与转世
My deepest desire was to assist others on planet Earth, and that my mission was not finish yet. Then, God said, 'Then, it looks like you need to return. It is your decision to either stay here, go back in your body or go back in different body.'

我最深的愿望是帮助地球上的其他人,而我的使命还没完成。神于是说:「那你看来得回去。你可以自己决定:留在这里、回到你自己的身体,或者换一个身体回去。」

193 Charles / M.B.(化名) 光之存有/「临在」 助人与服务 内在成长与自我实现
She (a Being of Light) said my mission was to be an antenna. I was to just drop little bombs of good-intentioned art, love, truth and spirituality in the world and that I have a gift to help souls evolve.

她(一位光之存有)说我的使命是做一根「天线」。我要做的,就是在世界上投下一点点善意的艺术、爱、真理与灵性的小炸弹——我有帮助灵魂进化的天赋。

194 Anna A. 一个声音 助人与服务
'Look again. What do you see NOW?' Suddenly, I saw what the voice saw, 'I see our planet and there are no borders dividing countries. The borders are gone!!' He said, 'This is why you're going back. You have a mission'… I do, at times, get nostalgic trying to figure out what 'the mission' was.

「再看一遍。你现在看到什么?」突然,我看到了那声音看到的:「我看到我们的星球,国与国之间没有边界了。边界不见了!」他说:「这就是你要回去的原因。你有一项使命。」……我有时仍会怅然地去想,那「使命」究竟是什么。

195 Attila P. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现 助人与服务
The judge thought for a while and said: 'But you have a mission.' In this moment, I saw all the people with their unique destinies as a great mosaic… I knew that if my own destiny failed then the harmony of the whole would be destroyed.

那审判者想了一会儿说:「但你有一项使命。」那一刻,我看见所有人各自独特的命运构成一幅巨大的镶嵌画……我知道,如果我自己的命运失败,整体的和谐就会被破坏。

此例被部分批评者视为「情感施压」叙事的典型样本。

196 RaNelle Wallace 已故亲人 为孩子或他人让路 助人与服务
I understood that my refusal to go back to Earth was causing his sadness… He said that if I didn't go back, his own mission would be hindered… 'I will complete as much of my mission as I can, but I will never fulfill it without you. I need you.'

我明白,我拒绝回地球正让他难过……他说如果我不回去,他自己的使命就会受阻……「我会尽我所能完成我的使命,但没有你,我永远无法圆满。我需要你。」

197 RaNelle Wallace 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现 助人与服务
[Before birth] we raised our right arms… and we made a sacred covenant with God that we would do all in our power to accomplish our missions on Earth… We promised to use our time and energies and talents to help bring about the savior's full purposes.

(出生前)我们举起右手……与神立下神圣的约:要尽一切力量完成我们在地球上的使命……我们承诺用我们的时间、精力与才能,去促成救主完整的目的。

198 Hazeliene M. 未指明来源 家人与养育子女 助人与服务
As a single mother I have to love my children unconditionally. My mission is to raise them up in a proper manner and help poor people.

作为单亲母亲,我必须无条件地爱我的孩子。我的使命是把他们好好养大,并帮助穷人。

199 Jean T. 灵性向导 家人与养育子女 助人与服务
They send me back telling me that I have to guide my son until he is grown up. My mission and to do good.

他们把我送回来,告诉我必须引导我的儿子直到他长大成人。这就是我的使命,也要行善。

200 Erica McKenzie 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现 助人与服务
She went through a tunnel of light, met God, experienced two life reviews, and was shown that everyone has special gifts and purposes.

她穿过光之隧道,遇见了神,经历了两次生命回顾,并被展示:每个人都有自己特殊的天赋与目的。

家人与养育子女7 条
201 M.B. 一个声音 家人与养育子女 为孩子或他人让路
I also had the sensation that I had a mission: to bring my child into the world even if it cost me my own life. I was congratulated for having brought him to Earth, despite so much suffering.

我还有另一种感觉:我有一项使命——把这个孩子带到世上,哪怕要付出我自己的性命。尽管承受了那么多痛苦,我还是因为把他带到地球而受到祝贺。

202 Patti 光之存有/「临在」 家人与养育子女
The next memory I have was standing again outside the light in the delivery room and saying, 'I choose to live,' which I presume was a decision to come back to Earth, for my mission was unfinished… of returning to my body because of the children.

我接下来的记忆,是又站在产房的光之外说:「我选择活下去」——我猜那是个回地球的决定,因为我的使命尚未完成……回去,是为了孩子。

203 Beverly Brodsky 未指明来源 家人与养育子女
Since then I have married and become a mother, which I understand to be part of my mission.

自那以后我结了婚、做了母亲——我理解这是我使命的一部分。

204 Graca P. 光之存有/「临在」 家人与养育子女
'You have to go back! You have duties to fulfill! Your mission has not yet ended!' 'Mission? What mission?'

「你必须回去!你有职责要尽!你的使命还没有结束!」「使命?什么使命?」

205 Rachelle G. 未指明来源 家人与养育子女 内在成长与自我实现
I thought about my five month old baby and my boyfriend… I also felt that I had a purpose, a mission that was not yet fulfilled in this life. This was not a work I had to finish, but rather a stage that I had to complete in this life.

我想到我五个月大的孩子和我的男友……我也感到自己有一个目的、一项在此生尚未完成的使命。那不是一件必须做完的工作,而是我在这一生必须走过的一个阶段。

建立机构或事业0 条
研究、发现与真知1 条
内在成长与自我实现46 条
206 Carol Vengroff 耶稣基督 内在成长与自我实现
I was told it was not my time to stay and that I was being sent back to my twelve-year-old body. I was given information and a mission.

我被告知这不是我该停留的时候,我要被送回十二岁的身体里。我被给予了资讯,也被给予了一项使命。

207 Heather S. 耶稣基督 内在成长与自我实现
He told me I wasn't supposed to be there yet, that he had a mission for me.

他告诉我,我还不该在那里;他为我预备了一项使命。

208 Sandra Rogers 耶稣基督 内在成长与自我实现
She was told that taking all knowledge back would result in her appearing 'abnormal' to the rest of society… Hardships are necessary for the growth of our soul.

她被告知,若把全部知识带回去,她在社会上会被视为「不正常」……苦难是灵魂成长所必需的。

209 RaNelle Wallace 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
If one of us were to fail in his or her mission, all of us would be hurt in some way. If one succeeded, we would all benefit. It was as if we were part of a puzzle with millions of pieces.

如果我们当中有人没能完成使命,我们所有人都会在某方面受损;若有人成功了,我们全体都受益。就好像我们是一幅百万片拼图中的一片。

210 Laetitia V. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
Personal development is the key to evolve and to be in accordance with your mission of life, chosen before the incarnation.

个人成长是进化、并与你降生前所选的人生使命相契合的关键。

211 Thomas Sawyer 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
One of our goals in this world is true self-realization – knowing that we are a soul, a part of God, yet also the Whole.

我们在此世的目标之一,是真正的自我实现——知道自己是一个灵魂、是神的一部分,同时也是整体。

212 Eric M. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
[I experienced] a feeling that there is a mission to do good on Earth and to discard and reject evil or protect yourself against it.

(我体验到)一种感觉:有一项使命,要在地球上行善,并丢弃、拒绝恶,或者保护自己不受其害。

213 Steffan H. 光之存有/「临在」 内在成长与自我实现
I felt like I had to get to it because I needed it. I don't know why, but it was my entire life wrapped up into one mission – I needed to get to this beautiful light.

我觉得我必须抵达那里,因为我需要它。我不知道为什么,但我整个生命都收束成这一项使命——我必须抵达那道美丽的光。

214 Lisa B. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
[I had] a sense of oneness, of purpose much bigger than the here and now. Spiritual identity. I feel like a spiritual being who is on a human mission.

(我有)一种合一感,一种远大于此时此地的目的感。灵性身份。我觉得自己是一个执行着「人类使命」的灵性存在。

215 Edgar Cayce 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现 业力与转世
Each soul enters with a mission. We all have a mission to perform.

每一个灵魂都是带着使命进来的。我们每个人都有一项使命要履行。

216 Dr. Craig Lundahl 研究者综述 内在成长与自我实现
We cannot dwell in the higher spiritual realms until we have perfectly qualified for it by a change of heart and mind, a significant amount of preparation, and by completing our mission.

除非我们经由心念的转变、充分的准备,以及完成自己的使命而完全够格,否则我们無法安住于更高的灵性界域。

217 中村(化名)—— Council of Elders 案例 长老会 内在成长与自我实现
Betty Eadie: 'I entered and saw a group of men seated around the long side of a kidney-shaped table… He said that I had died prematurely and must return to Earth. I felt them saying it was important that I return to Earth, that I had a mission to fulfill.'

贝蒂·伊迪:我进去,看见一群人围着一张肾形长桌坐着……其中一位对我说,我死得太早,必须回地球。我感到他们在说:我回地球很重要,我有一项使命要完成。

218 Sylvia Browne 研究者综述 内在成长与自我实现 业力与转世
The Hall of Justice where people go before a Council of Elders who help us decide how we are to progress further into the spirit realm… Here, the Council prepares people for their next incarnation.

那座「正义之殿」里,人们来到长老会面前;长老们协助我们决定该如何在灵界进一步进展……在这里,长老会为人们的下一次转世做准备。

219 Sandra Rogers 耶稣基督 业力与转世 内在成长与自我实现
The Being of Light (Jesus) gave her the choice of remaining in the light, with the provision that she reincarnate and experience once again all that brought her to suicide; or she could return to life and live out the rest of her life.

光之存有(耶稣)给她选择:留在光里,但必须转世、重新经历一遍把她逼到自杀的所有事;或者回到生命里,把余生过完。她选择回去。

220 Sarah Powell 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
In heaven, she was told by her guardian angel that she was brought to heaven to rest and gain the courage and energy to go on and finish her mission.

在天上,她的守护天使告诉她:她被带到天上,是为了休息,并获取继续前行、完成使命所需的勇气与力气。

221 Steven D. 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
I was told I had made a promise before I was ever born to serve the Lord… I was cautioned and warned to keep my mission between the Lord and me.

我被告知,在我出生之前就已许下事奉主的承诺……我被提醒、被警告:这项使命只能留在我与主之间。

少数明确要求「使命内容保密」的案例。

222 Roy Mills 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现 业力与转世
The angels in heaven showed us what we needed to grow spiritually and worked with us in choosing life experiences that would teach us the things we needed to learn.

天上的天使给我们看我们灵性成长需要什么,并和我们一起挑选那些能教会我们所需之事的人生经历。

223 Timothy Peak 天使与守护天使 内在成长与自我实现
They told me that I would be protected as long as I do the Heavenly Father's work. I didn't know what that was at that time.

他们说,只要我做天父的工作,我就会受到保护。可那时我并不知道那是什么。

224 Dot 神/造物主 内在成长与自我实现
A higher power is showing us a mission to do… The higher power shows us two ways to accomplish our mission: one of which he prefers us to do, the other one he isn't crazy about… We have free choice.

一个更高力量给我们展示了一项要去做的使命……它给我们看了两条完成使命的路:一条他更希望我们走,另一条他不太喜欢……选择权在我们手上。

225 George Anderson 研究者综述 儿童的使命与代际 内在成长与自我实现
Some parents lose a child tragically in an accident. That child was fulfilling his or her mission. The parent was fulfilling his or her mission also… Maybe the lesson was patience, love, acceptance, understanding, or comfort of others.

有些父母在意外中痛失孩子。那个孩子正在完成他/她的使命,父母也在完成自己的使命……那功课也许是耐心、爱、接纳、理解,或是对他人的安慰。

226 Dr. Rosalie Newsome(研究者) 研究者综述 内在成长与自我实现
NDErs commonly report shifts in basic values and attitudes, toward intensified compassion and a sense of unconditional love, spirituality, and a sense of mission, and away from materialism and competitiveness.

濒死体验者普遍报告基本价值观与态度的转变:朝向更强的慈悲、无条件的爱、灵性与使命感,并远离物质主义与竞争心。

227 Jeanne Ciampa 耶稣基督 内在成长与自我实现
He said without using words, 'It is not your time to go' and BAM I was back in my body.

他没有用言语地说:「还不是你走的时候。」然后「砰」的一下,我回到了身体里。

228 William Harris 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
But I was told, 'It is not your time!' … and like a rebellious child I rebuked this and wanted to remain in this realm of 'completeness' but found that it was an effort in vain.

但我被告诉:「还不是你的时间!」……而我像个叛逆的孩子一样抗拒,想留在那个「圆满」的界域里,结果发现是白费力气。

229 Clara 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
When he returned he told the man with me that I had to go back, that they weren't ready for me yet.

他回来时,对我身边的那位说:我必须回去——他们还没为我准备好。

230 Patricia B. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
A thought developed and a statement came from nowhere. 'No go back, you are not ready.'

一个念头形成,一句话不知从哪里冒出来:「不行,回去,你还没准备好。」

231 Cyril C. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
But then came this enormous but gentle hand that pushed me back and calming voice said you are not ready.

然后一只巨大却温柔的手把我推了回去,一个镇定的声音说:你还没准备好。

232 Kali K. 灵性向导 内在成长与自我实现
He replied with four simple words, that have stuck with me. 'You're not ready yet.' Confused, I asked him what he meant. Again, he said, 'You're just not ready yet.'

他用四个简单的字回答我,而那一直留在我心里:「你还不行。」我不解,问他什么意思。他又说了一次:「你就是还不行。」

233 Matthew B 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
I heard in a loud yet whispered, steady comforting voice, 'HE'S NOT READY'.

我听见一个既响亮又像耳语、平稳而令人安心的声音说:「他还没准备好。」

234 Bernardette L. 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现
She looked at me and said, 'You're not ready to go yet.'

她看着我说:「你还不能走。」

235 Andrew B. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
Someone was telling me, 'It is not your time yet. You're not ready.'

有人在告诉我:「还不是你的时间。你还没准备好。」

236 Randy K. 一个声音 内在成长与自我实现
As soon as I thought that thought, I heard a voice say, 'You're not ready yet.'

我刚一动那个念头,就听见一个声音说:「你还不行。」

237 Cecil 未指明来源 内在成长与自我实现 业力与转世
The first city was like first grade. People stayed there until they were ready to go to the next city – your eternal progression, from city to city.

第一座城就像一年级。人们待在那儿,直到准备好前往下一座城——那就是你永恒的进展,一城接一城。

业力与转世6 条
为孩子或他人让路2 条
儿童的使命与代际2 条
⑦ 方法与争议:这些材料该怎么读
一、多数案例是「回来之后追认」的

当场被逐字告知内容的,本汇编里只有不到 20 例。更多人是在此后的人生里,把原本模糊的暗示回溯性地解读成一项使命;也有相当数量的人(Jack、Robert I.、Fena D.、Omar C.、Ramona C.、Kathi B.)终其一生都在追问「我的使命到底是什么」。研究者注意到一个反复出现的机制:内容被刻意隐瞒,或被告知「回来就会忘」——Betty Eadie 甚至是在被展示使命后、以「返回即遗忘」为条件才答应回来的。

二、文化差异与批评意见

有批评者指出,「使命未完成/你不回去整体的和谐就会被破坏」这类叙事在西方(尤其基督教语境)的案例中明显更突出,东方案例里少见;「你走了世界就毁了」这类说法,也被一些人视为带有情感施压的成分。一个可对照的锚点是印度研究者 Satwant Pasricha 与 Ian Stevenson 的案例集:同一时期的印度案例里,「被送回」的理由更多是「记录出错/被误拘」,而非「使命未完成」——这提示「使命」这套叙事框架可能带有相当程度的文化色彩(本汇编第 ⑤ 区正好把这条线单独拎了出来)。与此同时,Edgar Cayce 一派把它读成业力与转世的自然机制,摩门教神学则把它接进「出生前存在」的既有框架。同一批叙述,至少存在「真实彼岸/潜意识文化投射/宗教框架内化」三种读法。

三、本汇编的取材边界
  • 全部内容均为当事人自述,本汇编不做真伪判断,只做分类与呈现。
  • 英文引文为与「使命」直接相关的部分,过长者以「…」省略,未作改写。
  • 为兼顾可读性,同一人在不同段落重复出现时按条目分行;同一人在不同主题下内容不同者,分别列条(如 Sandra Rogers、RaNelle Wallace 各有多条不同引述)。第一轮补库中引文较短、无来源标注的版本,已在扩充时换成本轮的完整版本。
  • 中文为译者译文,尽可能贴近原话语感;人名沿用来源写法。
  • 涉及堕胎、自杀等敏感议题的条目,仅作为「当事人自述的使命内容」记录,不代表任何立场。
附:按揭示者看的分布
使命讯息由谁说出出现次数
未指明来源72
光之存有/「临在」32
一个声音30
神/造物主25
耶稣基督20
天使与守护天使16
已故亲人12
灵性向导11
出生前记忆与规划9
研究者综述8
长老会2
⑧ 来源
  • near-death.com/mission/ — Life's Mission and the Near-Death Experience:本汇编最大的单一来源,按「神/光之存有/耶稣/天使/灵性向导/已故亲人/声音/出生前记忆/长老会」九类整理,所引一手见证大量来自 NDERF。
  • near-death.com — Told "You're Not Ready":补充「还没准备好/还有工作要做」一路的引述。
  • NDERF — Near-Death Experience Research Foundation:全球最大案例库。简体中文专区:nderf.org/ChineseSimple/(本汇编中 Lisa M.、JoAnn M.、莱利·H、卫岚等中文可读条目出自此)。
  • IANDS 与同行评审期刊 Journal of Near-Death Studies:想从研究史角度进入这条线,从这里开始。
  • 当事人著作:Dannion Brinkley《Saved by the Light》《At Peace in the Light》、P.M.H. Atwater《Beyond the Light》、Rajiv Parti《Dying to Wake Up》、Anita Moorjani《Dying to Be Me》、Howard Storm《My Descent into Death》、Nancy Rynes《Awakenings from the Light》、Betty J. Eadie《Embraced by the Light》、RaNelle Wallace《The Burning Within》、George G. Ritchie《Return from Tomorrow》。

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